It is all men

April 1, 2021
*Content Warning: Sexual harassment, racism* I don’t know if I should be writing this As a cis, white, middle-class male, I know my voice isn’t important or educated in the myriad of absolutely abhorrent shit that women are subjected...

Kelly’s Experience of Sexual Harassments

March 21, 2021
*Content warning: Sexual Harassment* I have opened my blog to those who need to share their thoughts and feeling following the Sarah Everard murder and discussion around violence against women. Huge thank you to Kelly for sharing her experience...
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Why Have 97% of Women Experienced Sexual Harassment?

March 17, 2021
*Content Warning: Rape, murder, violence against women, racism* We learn young. I was four years old when I learnt that my body isn’t my own. I had started infants school and a boy had taken a shine to me....

What was it like to be queer in the ’90s?

February 14, 2021
Fucking shit. The end. Only joking…..kind of. Let me start by saying I was born mid-way through 1983 so I grew up in the ’90s, entering the decade aged 6 and leaving it as an awkward 16-year-old. It would...

Bye For Now

April 26, 2020
I started the blog as a hobby. A way of letting out my thoughts and anonymously sharing a bit of me with the world. Writing is now my career and as a freelancer, it has taken me away from...

Anxiety Survival Guide

March 18, 2020
I’ve been meaning to write this blog post for a while. In fact, I’ve been meaning to write a bunch of blog posts for a while but life keeps getting in the way. In case you’ve been living under...
dating

Modern Dating is Fucked Up

January 11, 2020
It turns out I have a lot to say about modern dating, so this is part one of a series of blogs on the subject. Buckle up married readers, you’re in for an education…. As you know, I don’t...
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Loneliness Lock-In

December 9, 2019
I’m not unaccustomed to loneliness. It feels like it’s been a friend of mine for a while. Social isolation plays a big part in my own personal experience of loneliness. Living alone, being 36, single and childless forces me...

Support Local?

September 5, 2019
As a self-confessed champion of my town, I am the first to encourage residents and visitors alike to support local. When I say “local”, I mean things created by people who live in my community, for my community. It’s...