We all have mental health in the same way we all have physical health. Mental health is a scale and we all slide up and down that scale throughout our lives. A study by the NHS Information Centre for...
What are you worth?
December 12, 2017
What are you really worth? Pause for a second and consider that question. Are you worth people’s time? Their attention? Their love? Their respect? Of course we’d all say yes but do we believe it and do we demonstrate...
anxiety, blogging, communication, confidence, lonliness, mentalhealth, relationships, survival, writing
The L Word
September 6, 2017
Right, I’ve got a confession to make, I’ve been a bit naughty. So you know how I’m this self-proclaimed “positivity blogger” and life is fucking amazing and we should all be grateful for every second, even the shit times?...
bisexual, education, equality, feminism, gay, gender fluid, human rights, lgbt, love, pansexual, politics, queer, relationships, transgender
Be Bothered
July 27, 2017
The first blog I ever posted was about being bisexual (or more accurately, pan sexual) and since then, I haven’t really addressed the subject of sexuality. Not because I don’t want to, more because it hasn’t been something I’ve...
I get angry at stuff just like the next person. Mainstream media makes me very angry (even though I try my best to avoid it). Between election bollocks and totally unnecessary and avoidable loss of human life, I’ve been...
Well-Being Winner
May 18, 2017
I’ve been actively engaging in activities that are meant to improve your well-being because right now, it’s what I need. So I’m trying meditation (not going so well), exercise (does walking back and forth to the fridge count?), and...
anxiety, experiences, headstogether, heartbreak, love, mentalhealth, motivation, oktosay, relationships, survival
To Do: Don’t Cry
April 23, 2017
How to jinx your relationship in one easy step….write a blog about it. Sooooo, yeah, that’s done. *Laughs manically for a minute* Writing Get it Together probably wasn’t the smartest move. Relationship number 8 swirls down the toilet and disappears, without...
cancer, charity, community, death, experiences, grief, macmillan, motivation, positivity, volunteering
Life Outside It’s Character Building
April 13, 2017
I forget sometimes that not everyone who reads my blog follows me on twitter or instagram and that I really should use the blog to let you know what I’m doing outside of this platform! Sorry, my bad. So you’ll remember I wrote...
My very beautiful and lovely friend reminded me that I haven’t done a follow up to my blog post The “C” Word. Now, I think it’s because I spent Christmas with her and her family and she wants to see in...
The Anti-New Year’s Resolution
December 31, 2016
It’s New Year’s eve. Finally, 2016 is ending. (Thank fuck). With the closing of a year and the start of a new one, I’ve been seeing on Instagram, New Year’s resolutions and the obligatory “New Year, New me” bullshit....
